What Does It Mean to Love One Another in the Church?
As part of our ongoing “Relationships in God’s Design” sermon series, we’re taking time to reflect on what it means to build Christ-centered community in the church—especially when it’s challenging. In these two conversations, Pastor Chris Peters and Women’s Ministry Director, Laura Dougherty discuss how favoritism can subtly impact the way we relate to one another, and what it looks like to love deeply even when it’s difficult.
This conversation explores the sin of partiality as described in James 2, with reflections prompted by a sermon from Jason Tucker. Favoritism is examined not only in obvious ways but also in more subtle forms—such as how we respond to political views, socioeconomic status, ethnicity, or gender. There’s a challenge to consider: What causes me to immediately favor or disfavor someone, even without knowing them? The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing each person as an image bearer of God and making space to truly understand those with different experiences. Referencing a framework by Tim Keller, it’s noted that even when Christians differ in their cultural or political approaches, they are still called to seek the good of the world as salt and light.
Loving others isn’t always easy—especially when relationships are strained. Drawing from John 13:35 and 1 Corinthians 13, this video reflects on how love is the defining mark of a disciple and yet can feel difficult in practice. It’s often easier to say we’re “frustrated” than to admit we’re not loving someone well, but honest self-reflection can be the starting point for growth. The conversation also highlights that while Scripture calls believers to love everyone, it doesn’t require the same level of emotional connection with every person. The encouragement is to take the next faithful step—whether that’s asking a sincere question, offering grace in hard moments, or staying engaged even when love involves correction or persistence.
